I called him this morning and his phone was turned off. I’ve told him a dozen times he doesn’t have to turn it off when it’s charging but he doesn’t listen. It makes me crazy when I can’t get through to him. He didn’t answer his landline either so I was heading for my shoes—he never leaves the house before 9:00 a.m. I called his neighbor to see if he’d mind checking on him as I was one half making the bed and brushing my teeth, and one half telling myself I was overreacting.
“No problem,” Terry said. “I have a key.”
The phone rang as I was grabbing for my coat. It was Terry. “Debbie, his car is gone.”
“Oh….(Car accident on the way home last night? I ponder.) “….maybe he had an appointment this morning….thanks for checking Terry, I really appreciate it.” I texted dad, Call me.
“Dad! ” I say twenty minutes later into my phone.
“Hi, sweetheart, I had an appointment with the foot doctor this morning, then I stopped at the grocery store.”
“……..” Gosh, thank goodness, phew. “Wow, well you were busy! Charlie and I wanted to take you out to lunch but we can come there if that’s easier.”
“Great, I have lots of food to eat up.” He hates having extra food in the house as much as having extra money. We hang up and the phone rings again before I can put it down. “Debbie, can you stop and pick up two buns? I have Sloppy Joes but only one bun.”
Charlie and I walk in with a bag of buns just as Dad is lifting a cookie sheet with three pottery bowls of soup out of the oven. Keeping the soup warm?
“I called Kay (his cook) to tell her I was having guests for lunch and asked her how to turn my icemaker back on. She was the one who turned it off. She didn’t remember and told me to serve cold water.”
Charlie opens the freezer door and pushes a button. “You gotta hit the ‘on’ button, Grandpa.”
The table was set at the little bistro table in the kitchen with a third chair pulled in from the dining room. “Look at my dining room table and you’ll see why we’re eating in the kitchen.”
I know why but look anyway—one half taxes, the other half stacks of donation requests which make me crazy. “Doing your taxes? “I ask ignoring the requests for money. ‘All these good causes, how can I say no?’ Always his answer.
Have a seat,” he says. “If I was organized like you, Charlie, everything would be ready.”
“We’re ten minutes early, Dad.” I watch him lift one hot bowl at a time with hot pads off the cookie sheet then precariously place each one unto a placemat.
“What else do we need..?”
“Butter, pickles?” I ask.
“Oh, right, butter and pickles. How’s the soup?”
“Cold,” I say giving it a taste.
“I was worried about that.”
We microwave the soup for exactly three minutes and after lunch divide a chocolate chip cookie three ways.
“Thanks for coming by.” He says giving my son a big hug. “It was so good to see you, Charlie. Give my love to Lauren. We have to get her up here.”
I look at the two of them and know I have just had a priceless lunch.
My Dad and Son
Charlie and I open the door to leave and see a seven inch stack of mail with a rubber band around it at our feet.
“That’s a lot of mail, Grandpa……you won’t get bored.”
“That’s right,” Dad says with a chuckle as he walks away. “I won’t get bored.”